ACCEPTANCE

Beyond the cycles of idealization, devaluation, deprivation, and abandonment within our existence, we have to analyze what we give our true power to, how we address invalidation, and acceptance of who we are beyond a collective mentality into the state of the individual realm. When one declares their sovereignty, makes a decree or oath to themselves that they are distinct, separate, and free, we move beyond projections of what needs to be healed within, into internal analysis of what is, meaning the concrete, the “real.” Beyond criticism, judgment, and self imposed barriers, the willingness to accept who we are in our totality, enables us to stop defending who we are, into a state of acknowledgement of our true self worth, value, and purpose.

When one gives into intimidation, it subverts the soul into servitude rather than the power of the strength of will. If we enable another to restrict our life, movements, alter our peace of mind, deteriorate what we hold sacred, or destabilize what makes us whole, just, and aligned, we then give our ultimate power by blind submission to our oppressors and perpetrators to become our puppet masters of our existence. When we enable, allow, or permit, another to silence, break our spirit, become our ultimate arbitrator of truth, take away our inner peace or power, define, brand, or mark us, or cause further destabilization, it then enables a dysfunctional atmosphere. When the soul is left in a restless state of confusion, fragmentation, disillusion, and destruction, we then surrender to our circumstances rather than overcoming our obstacles. Never become captive to another’s will or demands. True chaos emerges from giving away your power to another carelessly and submissively, to contort to their will. Control is abuse, control is not love, control is deprivation of your sacred worth, and deprives you of your gifts, freedom, and liberties.

No one is your arbitrator of truth. No one has the power to define your truth. No one determines your existence or purpose of will. There is no need to justify who you are. To seek validation is to give your power away carelessly without rhyme or reason. No one has the power to place you into a state of sacrifice, deprivation, control, or submissiveness without your consent or permission. Beyond our experiences, a perpetrator may take away your peace of mind for a fraction, segment, or moment in time in your life, however, it is not your karmic cycle to live out penance for their unjust actions, disturbances, projections, or false state of unhealed internal dialogue. You can never walk another’s journey, you can only offer support, understanding, patience, and acceptance.

When we give into an oppressor, enabling them to create a false sense of reality or delusion, where we become their captive prisoner to bend to their will, we become sacrificial lambs, illusionary, a broken shell of what we once were, as we enable our boundaries to erode till we become or reach a deteriorated, unravelled, vulnerable state.

Beyond prevention, observation, experiences, projections, and judgment, it is essential to not enable another to cause alienation from our social network or community, destabilization of our support network, threaten what we hold dear, true, safe, or sacred, or make us question our reality when it does not align to the detail with theirs. Oppressors seek validation from those that are unwilling to challenge their point of view, as long as you partake in their cyclical gyre of control, the more useful and valuable you are to them. When one engages in a mindset of becoming a teacher of fear, evoking a sense of powerlessness, demonstrating self destructive belligerent outbursts of anger and rage to receive or achieve submissive control or domination over another, one must ask, “What do we represent that is eliciting or triggering this response from another.?” Beyond the public self, when one does not engage in true self analyzation, reflection, and internal acknowledgement of truth, what lies beneath will not align with the self that is presented to others. Be mindful what you give your attention, power, time, energy, and focus to, as you will ultimately become it within time.

Distractions, justifications, blaming, stories, projections, beliefs, and programs are a by-product of a fragmented self that has not come to terms, or is awakening to their healing process or journey. Beyond judgment, ridicule, self exploitative measures by others, misguided representations of the divine self, we must truly recognize that a young soul takes, and an old soul gives. When you have encountered many destructive periods within your lifetime, and are focused an determined on re-alignment, placing your fragments together to become an illuminating new cathartic self, we begin our resuscitation period, to recognize that there is joy in not obtaining what we once wanted, as we are given a glimpse of what it might have become along our path.

When we remain imprisoned by our resentment, abandonment, anger, sadness, the past trajectories of what once was, we rob ourselves of the joy and miracles of today and the present. Always be mindful that the actions of another are not a direct reflection of yourself, but are a definitive example of their character. When one is causing alienation, could it be due to their loneliness? When one is experiencing outbursts of anger at perceived threats, does it signify that they do not feel safe within their existence? When one has direct confrontation with authority is it a result of feeling they have to sacrifice to a higher power? Is lack of empathy a result of no compassion within their lifetime? Is the root of their sacrifice nestled in the fact that they had to be self made without assistance, and had to give up their freedom for achievement? Or when one does not experience love within their lifetime, may there be a possibility that they seek to destroy those that choose peace and harmony over destruction? Judgment is not a sign of equilibrium, or alignment, as it is an indicative of internal chaos and crisis that is prevalent within the reality of the individual.

Meaningful relationships prioritize safety, love, coexistence, empathy, patience, compassion, and understanding beyond pride, selfishness, and egotism. Control is the direct opposite of love as it does not enable or afford freedom to be who you are without justification. When we give into righteous indignation, it moves out of the zone of servitude and altruistic acts, into a deteriorated state that their perception or perceived experiences are the only route to progressive change, rather than taking a multipolar approach to solutions. When we get into the realm of distribution of power, it is an illusion, as we are all born free, sovereign, complete, whole, and one, to freely think, to freely be and act in accordance with our highest good, to freely engage, and to participate in the tapestry of life’s endless gifts, opportunities, experiences, and paths. No one determines the navigation of your sails, and you are not born into creation to be subjugated to the demands that may not align with your moral or ethical judgment. What is right, benefits all.

Within deep reflection, we recognize and realize that what we seek to heal will be triggered or mirrored by another. You have to come to terms with what is your truest state of being, comprehend and understand your reality within the mind, beyond illusions, figurative distractions, arguments and blame. When we fuel egotism, it also enhances insecurity, fear, and our core roots will reveal the unwillingness to accept and come to terms with who we are and what we feel. You determine the course of your evolution, healing process, and path within incremental steps. For progressive change, you have to move out of the illusion and confront what is causing internal harm. What is the core root? Is it a repetitive cycle? Beyond the individuals or actors involved, what is the core root theme? Have you masked, concealed, or buried what you cannot face? What are you frightened to confront? What aspect of self needs to be remedied or changed for the highest good? What was the moment your soul broke and fragmented? What can be learned beyond the experience to extract the fundamental lessons and wisdom? You have the choice to remain or change.

Our experiences are a moment in time, and beyond our past, those that sought superiority over us or another, are far removed from their empathic nature, as they are ruled by pain and greed. When we act with our heart, see beyond the illusionary, and enable forgiveness to encompass our heart, soul, and mind, we then move away from destruction, disruption, and chaos into stability. If you remain codependent on your past, it rules you, it deprives you of your human right to experience happiness, and ultimately becomes your taskmaster, setting parameters, perimeters, regulations, and barriers on your life. To live free, to encompass true emancipation and let go of what you cannot change, and to be mindful that you do not have to justify yourself to anyone or anything, is to embody true unconditional love for the self. You are emancipated, free, and are ruled by your conscious choices, not the cycles that you are meant to resolve, rectify, and move beyond. Beyond the judgments, define your own path, and accept yourself as you are. Beyond your failures, focus on your life and what you can constructively change, to enhance the betterment of your existence and the lives of others within your community. Our actions define our character, and foster a ripple within time and space for profound change. Time heals all wounds, forgiveness ushers in acceptance, and faith leads to belief, which enables the soul to regain and reclaim trust or confidence in the self. You are the hallmark of your existence, and your unique signature is what defines, inspires, and propels you.