CONGRUENCE

Fear is a state, or emotional sequence of distress, panic, or urgency to resist a known, unknown, or illusionary force that seeks to undermine, cause irreversible destruction or pain, through the use of coercion, conditional practices of abnormal actions which seek to cause apprehension, danger, or the unpleasantness of unrest. To remain within a state that causes one to fear the unknown, uncertain, or unpredictable is to give power to those that seek to cause disturbances, dismay, or destruction. Constant or consistent bombardment of distortions, disturbances, or circumstances which cause panic, causes one to adopt the belief that threat is constant, unavoidable, normative, or impending if immediate action is not taken to counteract the threat. When confronted with jeopardy, uncertainty, or persistent unrest, one is presented with two options, rise to the challenge, or allow the circumstance to devour, destroy, or eclipse one’s personal growth, foundational structure, or evolution. What one perceives as dangerous, unpleasant, or a threat may be a constant normative condition for another; to the one that finds dangerous conditions normative has developed adaptive traits to counter the force of uncertainty whereas, others will seek resistance. Fear plays a crucial and pivotal role in one’s ability to attain resilience and perseverance, as one has to consciously choose self-mastery over allowing another to become their ultimate arbitrator of truth or taskmaster. To live within the realm of fear, one will experience the prevalence of powerlessness, dismay, constant consternation, and repeated questioning of one’s true purpose or role of self. To remain within a depreciated state of loss of self, due to an illusionary force, is to give away one’s sovereign autonomy to another without question, concern, or thought for the ramifications. Once sovereignty of self is lost, liberty soon follows. One must seek to understand that one must not place a label on the situation at hand, as the core root resides within the state of control. To erode one’s self-esteem, is to give into the submissive and subversive nature of servitude. One must maintain direct focus, autonomy, and leverage, over one’s existence, without handing the reins of power over their life to another. For a society to function and operate with ethicality and justice, all must abide by the common rule of law however, within the private relationships and partnerships one should abstain from allowing power struggles to take precedence. Power struggles are a prime example of one’s inability to release control over the lives of others, and within the state of control, self-interest rises in importance over the wellbeing of another.

One is not a disobedient animal in need of remedy. True creativity, ingenuity, and abundance are enhanced when one values, honours, and cherishes their ultimate freedom, autonomy, and liberty to make significant changes through the power of choice. Travelling the unknown path least travelled demonstrates and encompasses the internal ability to explore and discover new terrains, paths, and methodologies without waiting for the approval or validation from others. One must not operate on conditional responses, such as permission or approval to live their life. To remain stagnant, is to surrender one’s ultimate power, while starving one’s true potential carelessly, at the cost of their future. One may experience paralysis from a circumstance that has caused or inflicted insurmountable pain however, it should not become a life sentence or excuse to not progress forward. Our abilities, talents, and gifts are meant to revolutionize, be catalysts of change, and when reinforced with intentfull action and vision, then become the epitome of what it means to be a true leader. With patience, consistency, and understanding, one must not live life within a linear perspective, as all sentient life are multidimensional, unique, and are agents of change that operate on divergent frameworks, structures, and sequences which are all unique in context to another. One must reinforce their internal power within, enhance their freedom of will through conscious living, and remain patient, while reuniting with the self, to foster trust and confidence within. Within our intuitive states of being, the role of control cannot take precedence, as our spiritual development must remain fluid and act in accordance with universal guidance, direction, peace, and intervention. One must address critical junctures, core roots, or soul wounds, which have caused significant deterioration in their ability to trust themselves, others, and the world which surrounds them. Through communication, one is able to then freely express their needs, emotional suffering or discontent, or reach enlightenment through the awakening process. Ultimate surrender of the past residual energies and circumstances, coming to terms with what has caused or contributed to the escalation of potential threats through acceptance, and acknowledgement of one’s own actions through accountability and transparency, accelerates change and personal development to enable forgiveness and emancipation of the self from the entrapment of what was.

Control seeks to erode the sovereign will of all, diminishes one’s capacity to achieve courage and bravery, and leaves its victims within the state of despair, longing to reunify with their fragmented parts. One must not seek to reap the benefits at the cost of another, or enslave others to bend to their will for their benefit. To deem or label another as difficult, disobedient, divergent, problematic, or troubled, when they fixate on alternative solutions or asynchronous routes for resolutions or measures, discourages alternative forms of mediation and diplomacy. To ensure peace, one must remain impartial, observant, and refrain from judgement to delegate and navigate complex terrains. No one is unloveable, a burden, or to remain at the apex of another’s scorn of discontent, and most importantly, should not remain in a situation which has become troubling, frustrating, toxic, unstable, or impossible to tolerate. No one is deserving of punishment, remedy, or ridicule, as all are evolving, growing, and learning at their own rates. No one is a lost cause, and should not be disposed of or ignored. To mourn for our old selves, is to retreat from the present, while not acknowledging how far one has progressed. Within life, all will experience several levels of rites of passage which are essential for their enlightenment and renaissance. The past serves as a valuable lesson, not a place of refuge. When one returns to the familiar, known, or what is considered favourable, one then returns to an infant state, where times were simpler, less complicated, or known. Retrospectively, reassessing our core situations at a later date, holds significant wisdom that the present or the current moment could not afford. The past was essential for a reason, and when that sacred wisdom is extracted, one then is ready and prepared to graduate to new elevated levels of expansion. It is easy to re-imagine a scenario where circumstances did not occur, to remain ignorant or absent from the current conversation, or to even remain within the illusionary state of not accepting the outcome or the outright refusal of the event at hand as a whole. Adaptation provides all with a significant role, to learn from what has stood as a counterforce, to recognize our core roots, karmic intersections of fate, or to learn about the deeper wisdoms or complexities of the self. When faced within the realm of fear, one may stand in their truth however, to others it is seen as oppositional or even defiant. Not all circumstances require one to comply with the demands at hand, or to resort to only the handful of solutions present rather, it is best to methodically weigh one’s options with care, consideration, and compassion as our actions hold karmic impact and cause significant karmic imprint on generational or ancestral cycles to come. To live within the realm of force or control, where a perpetrator demands or requests that another partake in their actions or engagements as their obedient object or possession, is to remain within a state of servitude, where one surrenders their will without the consideration of consequences of losing one’s autonomy, or the engagement of blindly obliging to the demands of others, without question. Non-compliance, divergent or defiant behaviour is representative of a soul that can no longer accept, tolerate, or allow the circumstances that have unfolded within their current situation to continue or proceed. Divergent souls seek new methods of resolutions, and often, are mavericks that seek to find peace within the chaos. One must ultimately protect their inner peace, stand in their true divine power of truth, and cease to not overwhelmingly oversimplify the actions of destruction. To give into situations that cause disturbances, pain, suffering, agitation or to accept what seeks to destroy one’s moral or ethical virtue or internal structural foundation is unreasonable, abnormal, and defies the definition of adaptation. To ruin, erode, or disregard one’s past or sacred teachings as meaningless or insignificant is to not value another’s inherent presence or generational roots, past, worth, or value. All human beings are essential and are not nothing or meaningless. To remain within a situation or environment that does not accept another’s presence, truth, authenticity, or genuine nature, is to remain in hostile territory, where misalignment is rampant, as the environment or situation seeks to change another to bend to its will as a form of ultimate control. To be restricted from expressing one’s creativity or innovative nature is to be silenced at the root. One must be able to operate within acceptance, tolerance, and equality, and ultimately stand within their purest authentic nature. Within the state of fear, when autonomy is challenged, one’s will is then deconstructed and the structural moral foundation collapses. To remain within a environment that does not allow or afford room for empathy, compassion, or unconditional love is solitary confinement, where one faces the danger of entrapment or ultimate surrender of their true self for mediocrity or conformity. Gaia enables all sentient life to become a tapestry of interwoven energetic sequences, which allows all to unveil their beauty, grace, unique talents, and skills at heightened levels of freedom. It is essential to overcome one’s personal obstacles, to challenge primal fear, anxiety or dismay of the unknown, uncertain, or unpredictable. One must seek what has caused destruction of the self. Where does powerless stem from? Where has the misalignment of self, caused fragmentation, or significant confusion? Who, or what, has caused the root, which has led to symptomatic responses of disobedience, insecurity, or overwhelming dread, or frustration, to proceed with ease or grace? What has caused ambivalence?

Traumatic experiences causes one to confront aspects of self which has caused pain, harm, disillusionment, and devastation. Could it be that one feels invisible, ignored, made an example of, or scapegoated for circumstances which were beyond their control? Why do we label another as difficult, when the abnormal situation at hand cannot be understood by the common eye? What if the situation took a route for the worst and has caused irresponsibility where responsibility, empathy, consideration, support, and compassion should have been demonstrated? What has another endured, that has caused them to face a cyclical loop, or has triggered escalating events, that have actively contributed to deprivation? Why is control the root of fear? When one is coerced into submission, through the use of fear, intimidation, alienation, redefining of history, labelling, or threat of punishment, why is this overlooked, ignored, tolerated, or accepted? What role does warfare contribute to destruction? Negligence, abuse, harm, conscious illogical or abnormal actions used to deprive the soul or even worse, which have become directives of force, lead to further complications, as another is forced to comply or face significant consequences, if they do not follow the normative route. When love, safety, security, or stability are not present, it then becomes entrapment, imprisonment of the mind, and reinforces negligence born from deprivation. At the root of primal fear is the fear of scarcity, lack thereof or loss, which contributes to deprivation. When one’s stability, security, or safety is countered with force, opposition, or fear, one then enters into the realm of force rather than of natural directives from universal guidance, intervention, or protection. The right to protect must be instilled in all, as a duty to self and the responsibility of responsiveness to others. What factors precipitate the role of abuse, harm, or violence? What are the direct and indirect causes of harm? Why do others seek to cause fragmentation, splintering of one’s soul, or cause one to ultimately break under pressure until they cry uncle? The answer is coercive control. Coercive control is is derived from another’s lack of self-regulation, self-mastery, self-awareness, were one places more importance on selfishness, greed, vices, or conducts their actions by condoning abnormal measures of underhanded operations, rather than seeing another’s life as viable or deserving of existence. To operate within the realm of selfishness is to not care for the wellbeing of others. To place categorically another at a lower level, is to state that all sentient life is not born from equality, but that of hierarchy. Our conscious expression is that of peace, freedom, and ultimate surrender to the forces of change to become adaptive and to grow within the state of ascension. When one is forced to comply with directives by the use of fear, consequence, force, or measures of punishment, one then can not operate within sovereign autonomy, or remain authentic in their genuine nature out of fear of non-acceptance. Our true power resides within the state of non-judgement, impartiality, and to remain flexible within our approaches. With fortitude, one must stand in their truth, speak their truth, act in accordance with their highest moral virtue, ethics, and principles in spite of opposition, interference, or forceful intervention. One must not operate within the constant state of opposition and negative interferences. When one’s focus is distracted, peace and healing are ushered to the side. Healing must take primary importance in one’s life, as it leads to the peaceful emancipation of the self. It is not selfish for taking time to examine one’s current circumstances or life choices that impact their present decisions. One must remain methodical, and proceed with caution within every interval of their existence to weigh the weight of consequences for actions or inactions. Our heartbreaking circumstances yield power over our existence, contribute to our narratives or stories, and directly influence our manifestations or visions for a greater future. Abandonment forces one to learn the importance of time, patience, respect and the need for enhanced focus on the self for enhanced self-mastery and self-reliance. Abandonment teaches all that nothing remains stagnant and that change is constant. Negligence born from abandonment is abnormal in practice however, enables one to become self-reliant and non-expectant for others to remain in times of need. One must become self-sufficient to grow in strength. It is essential that one’s self-worth, self-value, and self-achievements are not validated by others on a constant basis because one must accept the self first, and appreciate their gifts, talents, and skills beyond the acknowledgement from others. At the core of self-mastery, one must release the need to control all circumstances, trust their inner judgement and intuitive nature, and become beacons of light in all aspects of their life, for themselves, others and the greater community. Abandonment poses significant challenges however, the greater community must move beyond the tendency to give up on individuals as all sentient life is deserving of encouragement, inspirational and motivational mentorship, and empowerment. All must abandon the narrative or conclusion that others are a lost cause, difficult, problematic, or operate on a deficit. Within our states of weaknesses, all have the capacity and ability to learn new techniques to become a mighty phoenix. You are what you believe to be, and what you make of your life. To move out of the state of chaos, one must challenge the aspects of powerlessness, control, fear, or the submissive nature born from servitude, and seek to become fearless inspite of unknown challenges. To become courageous and brave, one must stand in the realm of uncertainty, declare their sovereign autonomous nature, and cease to remain a disposable tool or object to be molded and sculpted by another’s will. Embrace your uniqueness, value your abilities, talents, and gifts, and do not relinquish your power to another to forecast or control your present life, or dictate your unknown abundant future.

Learn to trust the self, and counter the overwhelming need to resort to past tactics, or to remain within the anxiety of the known fear at hand. Fear can not hold precedence over your existence. One must seek what innately drives or contributes to compounding the fear of the uncertain or unknown. Life is not meant to be controlled, or ultimately understood, as divine synchronicity and synergy plays within the laws of the uncertain. One is not born to experience significant punishment, remain at the mercy of another’s hand, or face consequences for circumstances beyond their control. If the environment is causing a deregulation, devaluation, or degradation of self, one must cease to respond to the casualties, and seek new terrain or circumstances which foster acceptance, truth, unity, equality, and that operate within the realm of possibility or justice. Control is only effective when one feels there is no other resort than to comply with the demands of destruction. Destruction is atypical, abnormal, and not our natural state. War does not foster growth, does not decipher which victims it will go easy on, as it is total, savage, and blinds all in its wake and totality. War is not fair, it eclipses the mind, fragments the soul, and causes irresponsible destruction in its path. War seeks no solutions, no peaceful relations, no methods of communication, as its actions plays a more significant violent role which speaks volumes. Within the realm of destruction, innovation and prosperity can not function as vision is eclipsed by depravity. More can be done with the stroke of a pen than the mightiest sword could ever seek to produce. To be reduced to a meaningless, insignificant number, or to suffer at the alter of sacrifice is to allow powerlessness to take root and ultimately becomes the normative form of life if unchecked. One must honour their generational and ancestral wisdoms, learn from their significant rites of passages or mistakes, learn from the consequences of certain unethical actions, and place more importance on their role as being a light rather than a force of darkness. Boundaries enable one to form a loving, healthy, and trusting relationship with the self and the environment which surrounds them. Protecting one’s peace enables one to remain responsive and responsible in their role within the world beyond the self, and to seek resolutions and solutions rather than acts of destruction. Destruction is the result of a misaligned mind, which seeks to destroy all forms of stability, structures, or sacred wisdom. To foster preservation, adaptive qualities, and emancipation one must become the root of peace. Move beyond complexities, regulate your actions accordingly, methodically decipher routes or methods which foster assistance, compassion, and empathy, and allow unconditional love to represent all aspects of your existence. Love is not fear, control, intimidation, or set conditions, it allows all to operate within the realm of freedom, liberty, peace, and equality, where the actions are met with respect, rather than constant judgement. Unconditional support is born from unity, partnerships, collaborations, and friendships. Abandonment, alienation, isolation, negligence and harm are not a life sentence as it stagnates evolutionary growth and expansion. Progress is achieved by communication which translates pain into healing by decoding the body, acknowledging where residual energy is stored within our sacred chakras, and through the process of release one is then able to acknowledge their core pain with pure compassion, acceptance, and empathy for self. Forgiveness affords one to not remain within the entrapment of compartmentalization of anger, and with retrospective analysis, one is then able to achieve freedom by releasing the act of another through the awakening and acknowledgement that our karmic counterparts served as a counterforce for our learning process within this existence. Our karmic counterparts teach us to enhance our structure, demonstrate to us where we require greater knowledge or patience, encourage growth where we may stagnate, and to force us out of illusionary contemplation or fear of the unknown, into the present. True authenticity is born from acceptance, rather than refusing to acknowledge the act in totality, or refusing to speak about it in entirety. Own your past, foster collaboration with the self through understanding and comprehension of your core wounds, and ultimately place importance on healing rather than seeking vengeance, retaliation, or retribution.

Discernment enables internal protection and reconfiguration of our values, beliefs, enables us deep insight into what we accept as truth, tolerate without consideration, or allow to consistently unfold. One must acknowledge how their boundaries directly impact their current circumstances, or could contribute to future issues, or problematic events. What has become normative? What have you accepted or become accustomed to? Is the situation safe? Can you build a structure that fosters stability, security, and reliability without the presence of the one that has caused fragmentation? What is holding you back from unprecedented growth? What has caused your beliefs to become fractured? What processes, approaches, or methods have caused triggers or regression? Our souls experience temporary injury however, once one accepts change, they become a consistent and constant force that progresses into the future with ease rather than waiting for validation, permission, or acceptance from another. One has to learn ultimate trust and respect for the self, and learn that within different circumstances and environments, abuse, violence, and destruction is an abnormality rather than a normal occurrence. Constantly engage within life, and cease to become avoidant. Our circumstances do not determine our recovery, and when one remains within the realm of law and order, justice, and seeks to remain morally ethical, their lives become one of honour rather than corruption.

Healing provides unlimited promise and potential, and at the core, one becomes open and acceptant to their metamorphosis, change, and catharsis with humility, patience, compassion, and unconditional love, through the process of surrender. One must surrender all that has been known to become a catalyst of change and to remain open to endless possibilities. One must move beyond misconceptions, dichotomies which promote fragmentations, polarization, destabilization, inhumanity, illogical forces which counter ethics, morality, and inhumane practices, into a state of peaceful coexistence. Unity enhances survival of all as all sentient life is valued, protected, and seen as equal counterparts. The unknown, uncertain, unpredictable may be painful, may cause one to feel rejection, however, it is ultimately universal redirection enables one to enter into a state of security, autonomy, and liberty through emancipation from the constraints that hindered one’s progress. Our past is not a conformation or determinant of our future, as we all hold the ability and conscious will, to foster significant unprecedented change. Beyond reaction, retaliation, or symptomatic responses, one must focus on the core root of the matter, and seek measures which enable inner exploration, diplomacy, mediation, and discovery to understand the true self. Pain may manifest, cause impairment, stagnation, paralysis, and mistrust, however our crucial core soul wounds enables one to discover that the residual pain has a deeper meaning and contextual story beyond the perpetration, as it signifies a much more complex core root of control, powerlessness, fear, or self-destruction which one must rise above with great courage. One cannot allow another to become their master of their destiny, and on the other hand, must cease in the consistent engagement or participation of allowing another to control, alter, or direct or influence their actions within life. What does the core root represent? Where is misalignment present? How can one prevent the inward motion of retreating when life circumstances become too unbearable? Only through the process of fearlessness, can one confidently confront their root core soul wounds, address their compartmentalized, or inflamed thoughts, beliefs, values, or perceptions, and seek new modes of adoption to counter remaining in a cyclical loop of destruction. What has limited your movement? Who do you ultimately give your power and consent to? Are you engaging in self-mastery to enable prosperity, focus, and inner peace? Beyond the act, why are you giving it further power? With humility, forgive yourself for circumstances beyond your control, trust your intuitive guidance and nature, and see your abandonment as not a loss, but that of a rite of passage, which enabled internal discoveries, emancipation from what required ultimate release, resilience beyond the force of control, and the adaptive quality of perseverance despite the odds. You are the power within. Rise above the challenges of adversity and destruction.