- ELISABETH BABARCI
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RECOVERY

Progress is achieved through incremental catalytic change. One must always lead the change necessary, to advocate for animal and human welfare. Preventative care is facilitated through the act of addressing the underlying core roots and issues that contribute to systematic malfunction or injustice. Through the act of awareness, continuous learning, and objective methodical analysis one then impartially and objectively discerns peaceful solutions and reolstuons that restore harmony, balance, peace, and congruence. Working collaboratively with community partners at all levels to bring about instrumental and impactful care to communities in need, enhances unification, systematic methodical approaches based in rationality and unconditional love, through supportive measures and outreach initiatives to help those less fortunate or in need. Collaboration combats outdated narratives, stigmas, denial or access to programs and services, or barriers to access for continued care. Objective data, and encouraging colleagues and communities members to address the underlying issues which contribute to injustice, facilitates recovery, acknowledgement, reconciliation for past acts of ignorance, injustice, or measures of hatred or intolerance which were deemed as normative within the confines of the past.
All sentient life holds immeasurable great meaning and value. When seeking care, it is essential to primarily first speak with your loved ones and close friends, to establish trust with longterm associations, that have stood the test of time prior to engaging with external organizations who may divert, obstruct, falsify, or demonstrate false humbleness or retroactive support based on their allegiances, need to seek opportunities to fulfill an ends to a means, or to appear as if care is a constant or consistent approach when their behaviour proves otherwise. Learning the cyclical systematic epidemic nature of those who seek to ruin ties or relationships with primary care or close family relatives is an acute issue and ongoing process. Beyond the role of the crisis, care needs to be sought by those who are dedicated to achieving stability, safety, and support. Stability and safety is not often found in degrees, courses, or ongoing training, it is demonstrated by what is provided constantly, consistently, and demonstrated incrementally. One must discern if care is afforded to enhance support, or to meet an agenda, when it suits one’s concealed goals. Preventative care is facilitated by those who are empathetic, and actively demonstrate comprehension and understanding of the role of guarding one’s inherent peace. One cannot seek solace in facets that demonstrate constant chaos, destruction, or aggressive behaviour. We are what we consistent or constantly do, therefore, always speak with family, close friends, and trusted support networks prior to engaging in new health care regimes, or entrusting organizations that serve to meet a quota, statistic, or trend. Individuals are beyond numbers, statistics, or preconceived superficial narratives that seek to minimize one’s worth. One cannot heal within the same environmental context that proved to be inhospitable where silence and ignorance proves to reign as a measure of control or a source of avoidance to acknowledge the truth. Mental health recovery is enhanced through partnerships and collaborative efforts, by trusted long term relationships first and foremost, paired with specialized tailored care that synchronizes or understands the source of the acute issue at hand.
When one experiences silence as an answer, that is the truth. When one experiences injustice, that is the truth. When one experiences hatred and ignorance, that is the truth. When reconciliation is not evident and no attempts to rectify the cyclical nature of the root cause or source of an issue, that is the truth. Many often seek or look for examples of redemption, change, reconciliatory measures, or hope, however, when one consistently demonstrates that they seek opportunities, they then operate from a superficial level of pride and ego, and acutely demonstrate that selfishness. When one is devoid of emotion, care, compassion, human and animal lives become an ends to a means, notch on a belt, or a statistic to prove their egotistical worth. One must seek nourishment, empowerment, nurturance from their fostered trusted long term connections rather than giving their ultimate power over to another to bend at their will. All sentient life is not made to be a malleable toy to be shaped by another, who views their perceived imperfections as weaknesses. Beyond care, one must reclaim their inner peace, sovereignty through autonomous decisions, and establish and foster trust, protection, and true unconditional love within their environment and communities within incremental time. Trust is built, not manufactured. When lack of care, compassion, or empathy is evident, that is the truth. When stability, structures, and congruence are dismantled, that is the truth. When one is left in a state of whimpering cries, that is the truth.
Beyond the context, one must autonomously seek to regain their strength within rather than seeking external validation. Through advocacy, care, consistency, clarity, and compassion, one must lead and speak at conferences to ensure that the right information is reaching the right audience to counter falsifications or demonstrations of concealed false humbleness in times when some want to solidify their support base. One acknowledges the truth by how a situation feels., not how it superficially appears. When one experiences destruction within their lives, they are faced with a critical and fundamental decision of standing at the precipice of what was and what is to be. Destruction ultimately deteriorates livelihoods and destroys the inherent spirit within. Cascading evidence of violence, selfishness, or demonstrations of false hope and empty words eventually are not taken seriously due to the course of one’s nature especially if proven to be unreliable, undependable, or their propensity of untrustworthiness. One must trust those that remain within the trenches during the hard times rather than the good. Trust cannot be facilitated by false humbleness, or demonstrations of care when it suits an agenda, trust is only felt and achieved through acts of humanitarian intent, where unconditional love is evident. It has to be more than about money, popularity, status, or personal representation, it has to be about empathetic compassionate care.
Accessible care ensures that guidance and assistance is available to those in need. Healing is an incremental process of cathartic release. Within the process of change, accessibility to care stands at the forefront of many issues as many are stuck in the cycle of perpetual vulnerability due to violent environmental factors, unnecessary surrender by oppression or injustice, unaccountability, ignorance, depreciation, deprivation, or external or internal harm. The state of helping those in need is nearing a tipping point, demanding new forms of innovative and methodical solutions, to provide more than a band-aid approach, to the underlying challenges and systematic causes of suffering, pain, and challenges at the emotional, psychological, physical, spiritual, mental level. By confronting the challenges head on, one then opens up to resources which provide relief, care, and systematic support. Shortages, the high cost of care or living, increasing number of dismissive judgemental perceptions, narratives, and attitudes lead to further deprivation of the soul and hardships, which often causes another to surrender to the belief that no help is available, challenging, or apparent.
Overlooking care, consistent and persistent ignorance, and silencing a victim, should not be overlooked, as it not only demonstrates the tone of some organizations but the character of leadership at the helm within certain sectors. Addressing these systemic challenges requires moving beyond traditional approaches, to a more interdisciplinary and preventative solutions, that integrate technology, policy, and a humanitarian welfare approach. Beyond the modes of silence and seeking pleasure in one’s misery, all must understand that those that cause division, despair, separation, and polarization in times of need, are not the remedy to foster trust and alignment within the future. Through the gift and presence of time, awareness, and incremental change, public engagement then reinforces acknowledgement of the cyclical nature of abuse. During periods of acute exposure due to undue stress, harm, and aggressive behaviour, one may experience emotional fatigue and burnout due to not being able to reach or achieve assistance or to be heard. During the process of silencing a victim, perpetrators seek pleasure in their misery, chaos, and mistune, as they seek control by reinforcing the need for their approval or assistance. One must learn inherently, that true strength and courage, is bravely found within, and beyond the context, the soul restoratively within time, will learn to evoke stronger boundaries and discernment, to combat further harm born from ignorance. Beyond empty words, examine the constant and consistent actions.
It is essential during recovery, that one returns to their structural roots, and questions the behaviour experienced with trusted family members, friends, and partnerships, that afford or provide objective and unconditional care, support, and love. Love is nurturance and acceptance, and it is not unconditional tolerance in need of validation. One may experience the inability to seek help, leading to a sense of continued suffering, pain, and abandonment, due to feeling the internal state of powerlessness or persistent fear. One must always remember, that fear is a construct and illusion, and once confidence and courage prevail, the soul is then able to progress forward with trust, ease, strength, clarity, and focus.
Due to a strain or inadequate legal and policy frameworks, one must examine what has become accepted, allowed, or maintained. Growth prevails when one brings about awareness, advocating for transparency, assistance, acknowledgement, and accountability for past grievances and circumstances. Challenges, hardships, and turmoil, enables the soul to reconnect with its internal compass, to question what has been tolerated, or in some cases, become the normative response or procedure. Operating within the state of silence, ignorance, and injustice, counters the honourability and integrity of ethics and morality, within the structural foundations of communities locally, nationally, and internationally. In many regions, the absence of comprehensive federal, provincial, or municipal legislation, and the presence of weak or inconsistently enforced standards such as condoning violence, hate, and harm as a natural part of historical relationships or generally accepted practices within communities, hinder effective widespread human, animal, and environmental protection. It is essential to learn from one’s historical and traditional roots however, one must extract the essential and integral wisdoms and lessons to impart and enhance impactful change.
When one is confronted with an individual or organization that operates with apathy, indifference, lack of sincerity, cataracts, or ignorance, to not acknowledge, or has the propensity or inability to seek help or offer assistance, one is then encapsulated in an environment where advocacy holds no place to reform inequality, injustice, lack of respect, or hatred. Actions, which are marked by constant or consistent silence, furthers the systematic approach of continued suffering, mistrust, and internal pain for the survivor. Healing must adopt a holistic and interdisciplinary approach, to ensure that fundamental rights are maintained with deference, honourability, integrity, equality, respect, dignity, and comprehension at the helm. A model transformation that shifts focus from traditional sheltering to community-based support programs, ensures that those in need receive necessary temporary support and assistance to enhance their rate of survival, after a debilitating or devastating experience.
Certain experiences, circumstances, and situations can cause significant and acute stagnation, paralysis, and fear which can alter one’s perception on life itself. One may surrender temporarily to the state of control and fear however, residing within its past residual impact causes structural damage, as one relies on alternative solutions as their bastion of hope rather than seeking strength within over time. The role of empowerment is to seek inner power within, within incremental stages and processes of release of what no longer serves one’s highest and greatest good. Within time, one must regain their strength through experience, recovery, awareness, discovery, and perspective, rather than reliance on another’s validation, acknowledgement, or support. To grant another ultimate power, is to surrenders one’s inherent inner peace. By becoming self-sustaining, one then evokes self-care, self-love, and self-reliance rather than deterioration as a method of recovery. Support is always available, as we are not alone. Family, partnerships, and friends are the fundamental first initial step to achieve the awaken process to one’s truth, power, and sustainability. Community based support programs, services, advocacy and awareness should be consulted once one has acutely acknowledged objective proactive approaches to seek systematic help. Family, partnerships, friendships, support one during their time of need, with unconditional love, allegiance, and care, beyond what can be offered externally as the relationship is not based on systematic truth, it is nurtured over time through the process of trust, solidarity, and companionship. When one establishes a source of family, they are then able to be present at meetings, observe the care for their loved ones, and disseminate any forms of control or manipulation, which may transpire during times of weakness. Family is the source of comfort, reliability, dependability, through persistent, constant, and consistent help. One is able to return to their roots through the power of unconditional love, beyond superficial external alternatives, associations, or assistance that may provide empty words of encouragement to fulfill a quota, need, or concealed motive. True care and compassion is felt within. Having a loved one or trusted partner present during the healing process enables transparency, accountability, and support during one’s time of need, rather than remaining in a powerless state of surrender, isolation, or division.
Integration of new treatments, techniques and approaches on a global and universal framework alleviates the stigmas faced by many individuals within religions, cultures, traditional approaches, or communities. Mental health must be devoid of egotistical or prideful measures as concern, care, and compassion, must be evident and stand as the structural base of care. Advocating for the integration of both human and animal welfare into broader public health and sustainability policies ensures that no one is left behind. Collaboration ensures and inspires impactful unity, through connection, which fosters long term relationships and partnerships, while implementing sustainable incremental change. Accelerating progress, is enhanced when one advocates for regulatory reforms, which then adapts legislative regulations, to support innovative or contemporary approaches, which ensure the safety of all. Placing focus and concentration on core root causes, addresses the underlying systemic issues like destruction, harm, injustice, poverty, lack of access to care, and the high cost of treatment rather than relying on the superficial or statistical symptoms, which is key to long-term sustainability and reduced suffering.
Harm is evident within many cultures, communities, and organizations. Beyond perceptions, many seek awareness for the harm that victims endure during their recovery process. Many do not care about victims, and as history has proven, these issues may stem from systemic issues within the criminal justice system, including high case attrition rates, victim-blaming attitudes among some officials, lack of specialized training, and a focus on victim credibility over the suspect's actions. Within the judicial process, we have seen countless demonstrations of those who advocate, care, and protect those who have experienced injustice, harm, and violence however, at the systematic level, it has to be examined if their vision is carried out by others who stand in authority and representative leadership. Beyond the context, one must counter myths, bias, and blame. Despite progress, some individuals may still hold myths or false beliefs that victims lie frequently, are to blame for putting themselves in vulnerable situations or that they implicitly consent if they do not physically resist. These biases can manifest in judgmental questioning and insensitive comments, leading victims to feel disbelieved or re-victimized by various organizations and systems within communities. Victims of harm are at the mercy of another discontent, self-hatred for themselves and others, and are seen as malleable tools for manipulation, harm, and violence. Victims often remain within a situation due to perceived or perpetual pressure of fear that they must remain or will receive further attacks or consequences once they release from the entanglement. Perpetrators seek opportunities, and often masterfully plan their acts, prior to the act of violence, in a methodical and systematic fashion, and it is often rarely by chance. Often, perpetrators will feed off of their susceptible conduits to seek power, to reinforce their prejudices or bias, or to project their internal pain and suffering onto another as a source of relief, to prove a point, or to achieve submission or oppression through the form of dominance and control.
Due to lack of specialized training, compassion, care, or ignorance due to old beliefs, stereotypes, embedded misconceptions or alternative perspectives, it has been proven that many receive minimal or inadequate training on the complex dynamics of assault and the neurobiology of trauma, which can affect a victim's memory and ability to provide a linear account of events. This lack of understanding can lead many to misinterpret fragmented memories or non-chronological narratives as a lack of credibility or an attempt to lie. Those that have faced, encountered, or have experienced at an acute level devastating harm, never asked for it to remain within their life, as the embedded scars remain even though the passing nightmare has been removed or released. PTSD grips and retains its victims within the gyre of powerlessness, fear, and subordinance to a higher imaginary power, to curtail their inner peace within their existence. Only after extensive healing does a victim regain their strength by recognizing the value of autonomy, sovereignty, and internal peace. One must guard their internal peace, as it is sacred and essential. Most assaults often occur in private without witnesses or physical tangible evidence, making them difficult to investigate, leading to "he said/she said" scenarios. In the absence of corroborating evidence, many may use their own discretion in determining reasonable grounds to proceed, which, if guided by bias or a desire for high conviction rates, can result in cases being prematurely closed or deemed unfounded. Unfounded often does not translate to untrue, it just verifies that one may have been methodical and tactical in their efforts to dismantle and destroy another within the confines of the law systematically and strategically.
When a victim experiences silence it dismantles their trust in authority, and those that seek to advocate for the humanitarian rights, freedoms, equality, and liberties of all. All sentient life deserves to operate within their natural state of peace, unconditional love, and acceptance to experience boundless and limitless healing, expansion, and growth. It is essential that there must be a focus on the legal justice system, law enforcement, policies and regulations, paired with mindfulness of the victim’s well-being. A victim must not be blamed for not proceeding with a trial, or denied accessible help such as services due to punishment for not speaking their truth sooner. The fault resides with the authority that enables this type of irresponsible and careless responses, as it demonstrates false leadership, emotionless insincerity, indifference, and apathy, for those that experience harm. Beyond the circumstances, all must honour and respect those within the judicial systems, law enforcement agencies, and politics that advocate for sustainable impactful changes that ensures that justice prevails with integrity, ethicality, and morality. All must honour the valiant and honourable individuals that tirelessly fight for the humane rights of all within their care on a consistent and consistent basis. The criminal justice system's primary goal is legal justice and conviction, which can involve a lengthy and emotionally taxing court process that forces victims to repeatedly relive their trauma during cross-examination. Authority, while often genuinely compassionate, may sometimes unintentionally discourage victims from proceeding, to protect them from this difficult process, which can be perceived by the victim as a lack of commitment to their case, or an attempt to silence their truth within.
Often perpetrators have a firm understanding of the law, to understand just how far to push or proceed, without any evidence being accessible to prove injustice, harm, or malice intent. Lack of follow up and transparency is often reported by victims due to lack of communication after filing a report, leaving them in a perpetual state of confusion and agony about the status of their case, furthering fuelling suffering, or feeling forgotten or ignored by the system. At times, a victim may even be denied the right to receive victim’s services, as many cases may slip through the crack due to negligence or lack of officers within a department, which can lead to costly expenditures externally to seek other resources during their recovery, without acknowledgement, remorse, or compassionate empathy to what the victim may be experiencing. When a victim becomes nothing more than a mere numerical number, the system has then become broken. The impact on victims must be addressed, as silencing and measures of diluting their truth, harms their integrity, ability to trust, and evolve with self-care, self-respect, and self-love. One must not place all their power in the hands of external resources, as it is imperative that one rises beyond the state of suffering, into emancipated empowerment. These issues contribute to very low reporting rates for continued assaults, as many victims fear they will not be taken seriously, believed, because they have been shamed by authority for addressing these systematic issues in the past, or will be blamed for circumstances out of their control in the present or future.
Abuse, violence, and injustice is a process that is traumatic and it destabilizes the soul in many facets as it causes fracturization. When victims have negative experiences with the judicial system, law enforcement, or those who install policy, it can further hinder their healing process, and diminish their faith in the justice system's ability to protect them to hold perpetrators accountable for their actions. Beyond the experience, one must always maintain hope and acknowledge those who serve within the legal and judicial frameworks, advocates, policy advisors, and law enforcements who selflessly dedicate their time, effort, and commitment to sustainable and incremental change beyond the force of control or measures of silence, distortion, and fear. All must change their initial response to one of empathy and belief, which can significantly improve a victim's experience and increase their likelihood of participating in the justice process, to inspire collaboration, hope, healing, and transparency. Beyond the forces of silence, remember the act as a demonstration of another’s character, not the collective intent of the whole. Individuals utilize silencing techniques as a powerful form of force, manipulation, destabilization, destruction, and control in systematic abusive dynamics and situations. The goal is to gain power, punish the victim, and prevent them from seeking collaborative support or healing, leaving them feeling intense suffering, ostracization, and internal pain, as they are trapped and paralyzed in stagnation or are unable to vocalize their truth. Within the cycle of control and dominance, one may seek to utilize silencing as a core technique and tactic of coercive control. By cutting off communication, the abuser denies the victim support, silences their truth, validation, support, and a chance for restorative peaceful resolutions, which reinforces their own sense of power through their victim's state of powerlessness, dependency, and fear.
Utilizing methods like denial of rights to gain access to critical services, silencing one’s truth, or denial of advocacy, allows and enables those that cause significant perpetration, oppression, and harm to evade, skirt, and erode responsibility for their actions, or they enhance the process of ignorance and avoidance from discussing uncomfortable issues to sequester it from becoming a larger issue that might threaten their reputation or occupation. Inability to act with responsiveness and responsibility speaks volumes to not only the victim, but to those that surround them with nurturance, compassionate care, and support. When confronted, they may deny the behaviour through gaslighting measures and shift the blame onto the victim, making the victim doubt their own sanity, perceptions and memory. When one gives their ultimate power to another, they surrender their inner peace, autonomy, and internal truth, by seeking validation, permission, and affirmation from those who lack sincerity and empathy. Instilling modes of confusion, fear, powerlessness, anxiety, deprivation, and suffering causes instability, unpredictability, and uncertainty. The uncertainty caused by silence, unpredictable behaviour, or subtle covert threats of ill will and malice intent that demonstrate injustice enhances, facilitates, and creates a constant state of disruption, anxiety, and fear within the victim. This fear can be debilitating, stagnating, and paralyzing, making it difficult for the victim to leave the relationship, speak out, or access essential resources during their recovery.
Perpetrators often are uncovered within time, as their empty words, shallow responses, and inactivity demonstrate their lack of compassion, bad leadership, inability to demonstrate compassion on an authentic level, and within time their inaction juxtaposed with inconsistency with their words and approaches eventually demonstrate their true nature, character, motives, and intent. When one experiences isolation, fragmentation, or alienation from their support networks, victims often suffer in silence. Isolation from support systems, is the leading cause of victims feeling weak, destabilized, or fractured, therefore, it is essential that one seeks those that demonstrate compassionate care from their close support networks. Support networks must be apparent and present during the healing process, to counter sources of manipulation, instability, falsifications, or encouragement of further unhealthy measures. One cannot seek peace by those who propose and support war. Isolation, conditioning, and hindering of accessible programs, services, or healthcare, causes further destruction of the soul. Victims must experience empowered autonomy to regain their essential internal power within, despite the external conditions experienced. Perpetrators actively, perpetually, and constantly isolate victims from friends, family, and other support networks as a form of control. By cutting off these lifelines, abusers become the victim's sole point of reference, amplifying and enhancing their control and ensuring the victim has no external validation or help to view. A victim must seek family members and sources that act with objectivity, neutrality, impartiality, and nurturance to view their specific situation with clarity and discernment, to protect the mind, heart, and body of the victim from further transgressions of abusive mechanisms or techniques.
Perpetrators seek others that are utile to their agenda or process, as they opportunistically seek measures which enhance their control. Vocalizing and speaking one’s truth, about their inherent traumatic experience, is a key component of the healing. Silencing, by contrast, prevents victims from processing their feelings, internal states, experiences, and emotions as it keeps their attention fixated on focusing on the abuser's needs and reactions such as validations and permission, rather than their own recovery. Demeaning comments with hateful undertones, practices of injustice and lack of common sense, ethicality, and morality, fuels the systematic cycle of control and dominance, which reinforces fear, submissiveness, and hatred as a source of harm. Perpetrators seek to erode a victim's self-esteem, to ensure that a victim remains within their grip of control. Victims internalize the blame, guilt. shame, despair from their circumstances which prevents and stagnates their ability to advocate for their rights or speaking their inherent truth of the matter. Beyond reconciliation, one must seek the source of abuse, which usually begins with embedded conditioning. When a victim is encapsulated within fear, dependency, and submissiveness, they surrender their power to their oppressor at will, due to viewing resistance as futile. Through repetitive patterns of abuse, a victim's brain becomes conditioned to associate speaking out, with negative consequences, such as further punishment, emotional withdrawal, or physical violence. Perpetrators enhance deprivation, hatred, and injustice to prevail, that is why it is essential that a loved one be present at all times to monitor, observe, and methodically discern truth from fiction from resources that seek to help a victim in need.
When a victim’s response to trauma is induced-paralysis, where the victim is unable to move or speak in certain situations due to constant threats, harm, and acute exposure, one then views the destructive nature of warfare as terminal. One must stand proudly in their truth, acknowledge that their involvement with certain characters are a profound source of pivotal lesson, or viewing the experiencing as nothing more than a passing nightmare for our internal awakening. Conditioned association is a learned response developed over incremental periods within hateful or high controlled environments. Conditioning seeks to derail one’s empowerment, and silences the victim’s ability to communicate their needs, boundaries, comfort levels, or feelings as resistance is met with punishment, consequences, invalidation, detachment, or further strain, pain, or harm. Behavioural modification are utilized as a mechanism of operant conditioning, where certain actions are met with destructive or aversive consequences. To reside within a state of harm or fear, instills in the mind of the victim, that the treatment experienced is normalized, normative, or acceptable, as violence, aggression, dominance, and control, and unethical or immoral treatments are seen as acceptable or necessary. To break one’s spirit is to pluck one’s wings one feather at a time. Alternatively, subconsciously or unconsciously, a victim then responds by adopting the survival mechanism of remaining silent, to then avoid further forms of punishment. To remain within this cyclical distorted view of unequal, abnormal, or unethical treatment, reinforces this abnormal cycle of abuse to persist generationally, locally, nationally, or at the universal level. A victim must stand and speak their inherent truth, and release their karmic counterparts from causing further aggressive modes of injustice in incremental processes.
Withdrawal, fear, paralysis, anxiety, and despair are often the markers of deprivation, assault, injury, or injustice. One must maintain acute attention to those that subscribe to forms of silence, ignorance, or avoidance within their support networks, levels within communities, and sources of resources which offer services and counselling. Within the state of injustice, constant invalidation, and the message that one’s voice is unwelcomed or worthless, erodes the victim's self-esteem and ability to defend themselves against future perpetration. They may begin to believe that their thoughts and feelings are the problem, rather than the abuser's reaction. One must maintain discernment and vigilance to acutely assess and address who they place their power into, as false distortions of false sincerity and humbleness, or empty words, are often experienced by victims during the recovery process. We are what we consistently, repetitively, and constantly do, therefore, our actions foster our narrative, character, and stand as a testament of our internal truth. Through autonomous discernment, victims must be granted the right to hold the reins of their existence.
Beyond the state of paralysis and withdrawal, one must seek emancipation from the forms of destruction, and seek internal salvation through methods of forgiveness, empowerment, and autonomous sovereignty from the circumstances which held them captive within their existence. One must not allow or permit another to erode their self-worth and self-respect. Within the state of complex post-traumatic stress disorder, victims will experience neurological redevelopment, where they seek mechanisms that enhance survival. Beyond the narratives to blame the victim for not coming forward one must acutely assess the perpetrators cyclical psychological nature of keeping a victim within their grip of control. What manifests this type of behavioural maladaptation? What is the source or root for a perpetrator to believe that their will supersedes the rights and liberties of another or a community as a whole? When another within authority ignores a survivors pleas, what does that state about their leadership, compassionate care, or perceptions on humanity? Inhumanity, injustice, and harm should not be tolerated at any level as it systematically deteriorates the moral fabric and ethical structure of societies honourable nature. By learning discernment, protection mechanisms, and how to acutely deal with survival instincts, a victim will then counter their inability to assert their needs and will gain confidence and courage to belief in themself again.
Victims must be supported, empowered, cherished, and loved. Beyond social isolation, withdrawal, and resistance, a victim must seek help from their perpetrators systematic abuse. When a victim experiences an overwhelming fear of repercussions, it enhances a victims experience to experience stagnation within their life which leads to paralysis from progressing forward. With empathetic compassion, close relationships, supportive services and programs enhance the survival of a victim after their encounter with aggressive abusive abnormal harm. All must address the root cause for abuse rather than fixating on the superficial reactions or emotional upheaval or statistical symptoms or analysis which jeopardizes or reinforces an old school narrative that may have expired, which delay further healing from transpiring. Healing is significantly hindered when the victim is unable to talk openly about their experiences due to fear of ridicule or judgement within their safe environments. Instilling safe environments, is a crucial step within the recovery process. Support systems based on trusted, validating individuals such as friends, family, support groups, where the victim can speak without fear of judgment or harm is crucial and imperative to foster trust and alignment. A victim must process their experiences, challenge the conditioned learned narratives and associations, and gently practice finding their inner strength and voice, to repeal modes of destruction from occurring again. Injustice, inequality, harm, and abuse are epidemics, and are fuelled by those who project their insecurities, hatred, and conditioned beliefs and values of injustice and destruction onto others, as a form of dominance and control. One’s voice holds inherent value, and leads to significant advocacy for those in need. One must not waste their existence or precious cherished life, on those who feed upon their misery or unhappiness that others instilled or imparted. One has to recognize that they must separate from those whose souls are bothered from our continued recovery, empowered state happiness, or emancipation, to attain or receive internal peace. Breaking this cycle is a challenging aspect but remains a necessary and critical process which instills and generates hope, compassion, care, and reconciliation in all survivors through the forms of unconditional love, authenticity, equality, transparency, and connection.